top of page

After the Holiday: A Gentle Emotional Reset for Your Mind and Heart

  • katinareuting
  • Nov 30
  • 2 min read

The days after Thanksgiving can feel complicated.

We often imagine the holidays as joyful, warm, and filled with connection — and sometimes they are. But for many people, the hours and days afterward bring a very different wave of emotions.


You may feel:


  • emotionally drained from family dynamics

  • overwhelmed from hosting, cooking, or traveling

  • lonely, even after being surrounded by people

  • saddened by who wasn’t there this year

  • triggered by old memories or unresolved relationships

  • anxious about the busy weeks ahead


If you’re carrying any of this today, take a moment to pause and breathe deeply. Your feelings are valid. Your nervous system is simply trying to return to balance after a week that may have held more emotion than your heart was prepared for.


✨ Give Yourself Permission to Reset


A reset doesn’t require a big plan.

It doesn’t require you to be 100% okay.

It simply invites you to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and honor what your body and mind need today.


Here are a few gentle practices to help you reset:


1. Name what felt heavy.


Sometimes your heart just needs acknowledgement:

"That moment hurt.

”That conversation felt draining.

”I didn’t feel seen.”


Naming the emotion softens its intensity.


2. Release the pressure to “bounce back.”


You are not required to be fully energized today.

You are not required to pretend you’re okay.

Healing happens slowly — and that’s holy.


3. Create one moment of peace.


A five-minute walk.

A quiet prayer.

A slow morning routine.

A cup of tea in silence.

A boundary you keep for yourself.

Small peace still counts as peace.


4. Practice a gentle grounding exercise.


Take a deep breath in for 4 seconds…

Hold for 2…

Exhale for 6…

Repeat 6 times.


Your body will begin to calm before your thoughts do.

✨ A Spiritual Reminder


God is close to those who feel overwhelmed.

He sees the emotions you carried through the holiday season — the parts no one else knew about.


He sees the small emotional victories you made:

the way you held your tongue,

the moments you practiced patience,

the strength it took just to show up.


You are not entering this week alone.

His peace is available.

His strength is steady.

His presence is your reset.


✨ As You Begin the Week…


Take it slow.

Be kind to yourself.

Let God hold what feels too heavy.

And remember: you are allowed to recover at your own pace.


This is your fresh start — not rushed, not forced, simply gentle.

 
 
 

Recent Posts

See All
You Are Not Behind — December Is Not a Race

As we step into December, it’s common for people to feel a sudden shift — a rush of pressure, expectations, and comparisons. The holiday season can create an emotional weight that leaves many feeling

 
 
 
Preparing Your Heart for the Holidays

The holidays are just a few days away. For some, this season is full of joy, laughter, and connection. For others, it can be a time of stress, sadness, or quiet grief. And that’s okay — your emotions

 
 
 

Comments


  • Black Twitter Icon
  • Black Facebook Icon

2022 Katina C. Reuting  MA, LCMHC, CDP by Wix

bottom of page